The First & Most Basic Step To Becoming Successful With Women
The first step to becoming successful with women is this:
Learn to have basic conversational skills.
You MUST be able to talk to anyone at anytime -- anywhere.
As simple as it may sound, this should be the first step
you MUST simply master.
And WHY must you do this?
Well, think about it -- if you're able to literally talk to
anyone AS and WHEN you like, don't you think you'll
subconciously be improving your social conversational
skills with people in general?
The idea for you to do so is so that you become more
COMFORTABLE talking to people.
Forget whether it's with a guy or a girl for the moment.
Just make 'talking to people' second nature for you.
If you're shy with the girls, then a good place to start
is with the guys - especially the guys who are already
great with the ladies.
Use them as practice.
Think about it, common sense tells you if you can't even
feel comfortable talking to guys, what makes you think
you'll be better off with the girls?
You can learn A LOT from these so-called 'players' as well.
Remember, the fastest way for you to become great with women
is to MODEL after those who are ALREADY achieving the
success that you want with women at the moment.
I have explained this technique in great detail inside my
book at: http://www.InstantAttractionProgram.com
You see, once you're comfortable talking with the guys, then
you can start moving forward and try talking to the girls
Remember: make GRADUAL improvements -- on a daily basis.
Think about it: If you can gradually improve your
conversational skills by a mere 1% each day CONSISTENTLY,
by the very end of the month, your conversational skills
would have improved by a whopping 30%!
NEVER underestimate the power of gradual improvement!
The next key step is for you to TAKE ACTION.
Can you imagine how much more fun your life would be if
you'll be able to just walk up and talk to any girl that you
With this skill in hand, you'll be able to mess around with
any girl you choose, anywhere you like!
It could be just be the sales girl from your local shopping
mall, to the waitress who serves you coffee, to even the
girl sitting next to you in the bus stop!
Here's something you should also know when it comes to
talking to women.
Most guys tend to try TOO HARD when they're talking to a
woman -- a beautiful one especially.
They'll tend to be way too accomodating, friendly &
'complimentary' to the her which is exactly the OPPOSITE way
that most 'alpha males' should be doing.
This is also EXACTLY the way that 90% of guys would be when
they're talking to a woman which is wrong, wrong, WRONG!
What you SHOULD be doing in fact, is to NOT project tha vibe
that you're trying TOO HARD to gain their attention.
Remember: Be DIFFERENT.
For examples on how to be indifferent, it's all discussed in
great detail in my book at http://www.InstantAttractionProgram.com as well.
You see, most guys, especially the shy ones, they tend to be
too afraid in trying something funny or something cool
especially if its with a beautiful woman.
My question for you is this?
What's the worst that could happen to you if you did?
But before we go into that, let me tell you this, and this
really is a FACT. More often than not, the worst things that
you would normally think off, will most likely NOT happen at
It's just your mind playing silly 'ol tricks on ya, that's
Now, worst case scenario is even if you DID fall flat on your
face, at least you did something DIFFERENT, unlike the 99
other losers that said the same lame, over-accommodating lines
that she's so accustomed to all along.
You see, if you really want to be great with women, you must
be a super 'ALPHA' bloke -- a guy who's NOT afraid to speak
his mind AND do the right thing in any given situation
and be the leader of the pack.
Not be all wimpy and accommodating and stuff...
Think about it -- then go out and DO it.
You'll SEE the difference right away.
And you can thank me later, ok? ;-)
[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "Instant
Attraction Program" -- the community's MOST COMPREHENSIVE
program revealing the most intimate secrets on female
attraction techniques and dating strategies.
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