How Does An Average Looking Joe Stand-Out From The Other Guys And Have Women Picking Him Over The Rest
"If you want to be truly successful with women, you've got to
learn ways to create instant attraction with women"
What does the words "create attraction" really mean?
Ok - think of it this way...
Physically attractive, hot looking women have TONS of options
when it comes to men.
Whether they like it or not, they are approached by men ALL
Now, if you've an average looking or probably physically
'unattractive' kinda guy -- how do YOU stand out from the rest
How do these physically attrac.tive women choose their men?
What makes them sit up and take notice then?
Guys think that they will score better with a woman if their
physically attractive... this is where their DEAD WRONG.
Instead, women find men with strong character & personality
traits much more APPEALING to them.
Simply put -- CHARACTER & PERSONALITY are what women find
most ATTRACTIVE in men. NOT looks.
Get that in your head.
How do you attract them?
Be flirtingly playful:
- Send mixed signals (make her laugh, give her an enjoyable
time, let her think you're interested in her, then
suddenly walk away)
- Be a mystery to her (when she asks for your name, don't
give her a direct answer, if she asks for your accupation,
tell her you're a crocodile hunter, the point is to keep
her guessing, etc)
- Tease her (if she wants something from you, tell her she
has to EARN it)
- Dominant (being the one in control of the situation and
never allowing others to effect it)
What you must understand is in order for you to create
attraction, you've got to first spark and then AMPLIFY the
se.xual attraction in her for you by communicating with her
through playful verbal and non-verbal flirting.
Attraction is created by playfully flirting, using humor
and demonstrating personality traits that women find most
appealing to her... at the same time projecting you're in
CONTROL of the situation in a very laid back & relaxed
In order to create attraction then, you must constantly
be using it on a woman.
You can't just use it "once in a while."
Instead, you've got to use it ALL THE TIME when you're
with woman you're eye-ing for. And once you've done it
enough, and IF you did it the 'right' way, you'll notice
how women will open up to you & start flirting back with
you in a playful, sensual and exciting way as well...
Let me give you an example...
If you say something like "Hi, my name's John. I can't
help but notice how beautiful you are and I just had to
come up and get to know you"...
This is NOT flirting.
Instead, you could go
Her: So are you here alone?
You: I'm not answering that.
Her: Why not?
You: How would I know if you're not a serial stalker.
Her: Hey (laughs) -- do I look like one?
You: Do you REALLY want to know the answer? ;-)
Do you get what I'm trying to say here?
I'm taking an everyday, casual question and turning it into
something playful & fun with her.
You see, when you communicate to her in this manner, you're
FLIRTING, being playful & TEASING her in a way that most men
And the moment you get her 'into' this sort of flirting
conversation, you begin to quickly spark that inner
attraction in her.
Women generally aren't attracted to guys who constantly
submit in to their demands, they want someone 'challenging',
fun and EXCITING.
It's absolutely crucial for you to get this right from the
very beginning when you're dating women.
[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "Instant
Attraction Program" -- the community's MOST COMPREHENSIVE
program revealing the most intimate secrets on female
attraction techniques and dating strategies.
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